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Burnout & The Coming Crisis
I feel like part of what I do is turn my experience into medicine and guidance for others. And so, telling my stories and being transparent about my experiences feels not only meaningful but that it's part of my calling. These past few years have brought new challenges to our lives, both collectively and individually. We're all having a difficult time, to various extents. Everything is hovering somewhere between terrible and fine. Both globally terrifying and yet weirdly nor
May 124 min read


Tarot: How to find a good reader
Tarot is accessible to everyone, which means there are hundreds of people offering readings online. How can you find a reader you can trust, who's qualified to help you with your questions? I primarily use TikTok for consuming my social media these days, and while I technically have an account for Lamplighter, I haven't used it much. I mostly use TikTok to spend a few idle moments seeking a good joke or gag, and occasionally to help inspire me. My FYP is really a mixed bag of
Jun 21, 20257 min read


Discover & Develop Your Intuition
The Ego/Mind is designed to keep you out of trouble. Intuition is designed to lead you to happiness. My whole schtick here is to help people tap into their intuition to reignite their divine spark which serves as a compass leading us all to alignment. According this this article, "alignment is about clarifying who you are—your values and priorities—and removing the noise and distraction of other’s expectations, rather than trying to achieve some unattainable 'balance' based o
Apr 11, 20253 min read


Toxic Positivity
Too much of anything is a bad thing, even positivity. In coaching and spiritual circles, there's often a big focus on gratitude and positive thinking. We say, "if you get your head right, everything else will follow" —or something along that line. But this can be a really damaging stance to take with anyone struggling with concrete issues. I've been hearing a lot about toxic positivity recently, and I wanted to add my two-cents to the discussion. There's a lot of this especia
Feb 2, 20254 min read


Resolutions
It's that time of year again where 'resolution' is a buzz-word. Some people love them, some hate them. Have you set a resolution to start or stop a habit? How can you be resolute and hold compassion for yourself? Let's dig into it! With the conclusion of December, the holidays are coming to an end, capped off by a new year celebration. It's a long-standing tradition to set a resolution (defined as: a firm decision to do or not to do something) with the dawning of the new year
Jan 5, 20253 min read


When to Stop Pushing
Leaning in to resistance is one thing, smashing your head against a wall is another. My last blog post was all about pushing boundaries and challenging ourselves to grow. And it's become very obvious to me that it'd be entirely possible to take that little nugget of truth a bit too far. There's a huge difference between resistance and an immovable force. Resistance should feel challenging, but rewarding. If you've been struggling to get through something and it feels awful an
Nov 11, 20243 min read


Benefits of Resistance
Have you been feeling aimless, depressed, or restless? Then, it's time to lean into what you've been resisting. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about how we grow, how we evolve. A few weeks ago I saw a TikTok video where someone was sharing their thoughts on growth and it really resonated with me. I’ve been retelling the story to my clients in the hopes that they feel the truth of it the way I did. (I tried to find the video to link it, but I couldn’t find it again.) In the v
Oct 9, 20242 min read


Coaching vs. Tarot
Lamplighter offers tarot readings and soul coaching. But which service is the right choice for you? I 've been thinking a lot about whether I should merge my tarot and coaching into something simpler like "book time with Lindsay" because there can be a lot of overlap between a coaching session and a tarot session. But there are significant differences between the two, so for now they'll stay separate. You're looking for some guidance and support in your life, you arrive at my
Aug 28, 20243 min read


Manifestation by Invitation
I've been giving a lot of thought to the energies I attract into my life, and would like to invite you to do the same... There are (arguably) only 2 ways to manifest. One is through thought and action (active), the other is through invitation and openness (passive). I believe that active manifestation gets more attention than passive manifestation, so I thought I'd dedicate a bit of space to my preferred manifestation style. First, do you know what manifestation is? Well, I s
Aug 4, 20232 min read


How to be Your Ideal Future Self
There's always something we want to become, some version of ourselves we wish we were. Here's how to actually become your Future Self. Step One: Decide Who exactly do you want to be? Let's define that person. . . How do you feel when you wake up in the morning? What kind of foods do you eat? How are your free days spent? What are your hobbies? What kind of clothing do you wear? Who do you surround yourself with? Where do you gain your income? What kind of partner/lover/friend
Jul 20, 20232 min read


Energy: Finding Balance
Have you ever noticed that sometimes you have seemingly unending energy for something in your life, but other areas are being neglected? Let’s look at where your energy comes from, and where it’s spent. Life Aspects Inspired by the pentacle, I like to think of life as made up of five different aspects: Spirit, Body, Mind, Heart, and Community (or Spiritual, Physical, Mental, Emotional, Social). Take a moment, and rate each of these areas of your life on a scale from 1 (poor)
Jun 22, 20223 min read


Keep Your Feet on the Ground
My best advice for spiritual seekers at any level is to Keep Your Feet on the Ground. But what exactly does this mean? With so many people finding their spiritual path, we are existing in a time of philosophers and prophets. Social media means that any awakened spiritual person has access to a following of keen and invested learners. Assuming you're one of the awakened or a student, you've surely heard people talking about "raising vibrations" and going into "higher frequenci
Mar 12, 20222 min read
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